Post by Admin on Jan 16, 2024 21:16:06 GMT -5
Hey all you horndogs,
Been a long time since I posted, a real long time. But probably most of you know about my health problems and once they started, they never seemed to stop. Last summer I had 2 heart attacks and another 2 stents, immediately after I felt great. A week later I bought a ticket back to the DR, but gave myself a few days yet here to visit the grandkids before I left. During that visit I had the widow maker, that one almost got me. Then 2 weeks ago today, I went in with chest pains again, and the last stent I had closed up already and they had to go in and correct that.
Man I love being old !!!
You all probably know that #1 has reopened, looks a lot different with so much new stuff, so far we have had a positive response and only had a few glitches, actually less than what I had envisioned. I'll try to put up a couple of pictures at the end.
Fior also wanted to post but she says I do a a better job of writing than her, so I should be doing this.
We were talking a while back, about someone leaving who did not have a great experience. It doesn't happen very often, but I wish it would never happen, however, the law of averages says that it has to happen once in a while. So, I was listing possibilities of why someone wouldn't be happy. Fior was quick to point out, if the guest gets along good with his girl, if they click, he is always happy. So then we look at the causes of why would they not get along really well?
Most don't realize that spending time with a girl here is just like dating at home. You want to charm her, treat her with respect, show interest, ask about her life and family, pay attention to her, be considerate of her needs and NEVER treat her like an object. She is not your personal slave, nor is she required to act like one. The girls can pick up on a user very quickly, and if you treat them like an object that's what you will get in return, just a hole to plug and that's it. We have many regulars that the girls will fight over because the guys treat them like a boyfriend would and the girls eat it up. Those are the guys that have to hide because the girls are all over them and they are the ones suggesting sex and lots of it. When you see a guy on the veranda in the evening and his girl is massaging his shoulders, rubbing his feet, hanging all over him, waiting on him hand and foot, you can be sure he has been doing everything I mentioned above.
I have seen guys leave their girls high and dry and go out to eat on their own in the evening, explore the town, be gone 2 or 3 or more hours and after abandoning their date for so long, they come back and expect her to be thrilled to see them. More than likely he will get exactly what he gave. Now, that being said, they do understand that for diving, fishing, etc. they will be left for a few hours and that's never a problem, because guests come for a little sport as well.
Hygiene is another issue, some guys don't shower, brush their teeth, and wear the same underwear and clothes for several days, because they are on vacation. But they never think about the impact of a girl having to sleep next to someone who hasn't bathed for days. Much less doing the mattress mambo with him.
Drinking to excess is another issue, now everybody comes here to drink, that's a given, but it's what you do after you have consumed a large amount. Most guys are OK, but there are few, that might be a tad rough, abrasive, whatever, but you've lost any chance of her ever warming up to you like she should.
Then there are some, that like things a little on the different side, outside the norm you might say and that's OK, however, when someone sends us a profile, it might be a good thing to mention those particular likes, because we have girls that would be most likely be receptive to that, but we just need to know.
OK, well that's enough for now, but there are several more points I want to cover in the future. I'll try to post some new pictures of #1 below and when I get some really good ones, I'll add them to the website.
Hope to see some of you really soon.
BD
Been a long time since I posted, a real long time. But probably most of you know about my health problems and once they started, they never seemed to stop. Last summer I had 2 heart attacks and another 2 stents, immediately after I felt great. A week later I bought a ticket back to the DR, but gave myself a few days yet here to visit the grandkids before I left. During that visit I had the widow maker, that one almost got me. Then 2 weeks ago today, I went in with chest pains again, and the last stent I had closed up already and they had to go in and correct that.
Man I love being old !!!
You all probably know that #1 has reopened, looks a lot different with so much new stuff, so far we have had a positive response and only had a few glitches, actually less than what I had envisioned. I'll try to put up a couple of pictures at the end.
Fior also wanted to post but she says I do a a better job of writing than her, so I should be doing this.
We were talking a while back, about someone leaving who did not have a great experience. It doesn't happen very often, but I wish it would never happen, however, the law of averages says that it has to happen once in a while. So, I was listing possibilities of why someone wouldn't be happy. Fior was quick to point out, if the guest gets along good with his girl, if they click, he is always happy. So then we look at the causes of why would they not get along really well?
Most don't realize that spending time with a girl here is just like dating at home. You want to charm her, treat her with respect, show interest, ask about her life and family, pay attention to her, be considerate of her needs and NEVER treat her like an object. She is not your personal slave, nor is she required to act like one. The girls can pick up on a user very quickly, and if you treat them like an object that's what you will get in return, just a hole to plug and that's it. We have many regulars that the girls will fight over because the guys treat them like a boyfriend would and the girls eat it up. Those are the guys that have to hide because the girls are all over them and they are the ones suggesting sex and lots of it. When you see a guy on the veranda in the evening and his girl is massaging his shoulders, rubbing his feet, hanging all over him, waiting on him hand and foot, you can be sure he has been doing everything I mentioned above.
I have seen guys leave their girls high and dry and go out to eat on their own in the evening, explore the town, be gone 2 or 3 or more hours and after abandoning their date for so long, they come back and expect her to be thrilled to see them. More than likely he will get exactly what he gave. Now, that being said, they do understand that for diving, fishing, etc. they will be left for a few hours and that's never a problem, because guests come for a little sport as well.
Hygiene is another issue, some guys don't shower, brush their teeth, and wear the same underwear and clothes for several days, because they are on vacation. But they never think about the impact of a girl having to sleep next to someone who hasn't bathed for days. Much less doing the mattress mambo with him.
Drinking to excess is another issue, now everybody comes here to drink, that's a given, but it's what you do after you have consumed a large amount. Most guys are OK, but there are few, that might be a tad rough, abrasive, whatever, but you've lost any chance of her ever warming up to you like she should.
Then there are some, that like things a little on the different side, outside the norm you might say and that's OK, however, when someone sends us a profile, it might be a good thing to mention those particular likes, because we have girls that would be most likely be receptive to that, but we just need to know.
OK, well that's enough for now, but there are several more points I want to cover in the future. I'll try to post some new pictures of #1 below and when I get some really good ones, I'll add them to the website.
Hope to see some of you really soon.
BD
